Monday, October 22, 2007

Hope wins out in Parkovash Park

Here is my story of hope working in South Bend-

My family lives in the North Shore Triangle neighborhood just north of downtown SB. For many years neighbors Bob Downs and Al "Buddy" Kirsits threw a Halloween party for the neighborhood kids. They spent weeks decorating their yards, carved over 100 pumpkins and gave away a dentists dream of candy. We all watched the neighborhood kids grow from scared participants to actors in the annual event.

Tragically, in March of 2002 Bob was killed by a disgruntled employee while working at Bertrand products in Michigan. As October loomed near Buddy knew he couldn't pull off the celebration without his brother in ghastly adventures. Though we all mourned Bob's passing, many of us realized we also mourned the loss of the special sense of community he helped create on Halloween night. We decided not to allow our neighborhood to be once again victimized by violence in the loss of a Halloween celebration.

That October several neighbors put forth the first annual Parkovash Park Halloween Party. Totally funded and run by volunteers in the neighborhood, we play games, eat food, gather around a fire as we greet old friends and meet the new.

Most of all, I think we keep the hope for our city alive and refuse to cower in fear of those who would extinguish that hope.

Judie Mengel

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Bob's and Buddy's Halloween antics were legendary. What good times and great memories.

I live in the Triangle and am so glad the tradition is being revived!

Kythester said...

I grew up in the North Shore Triangle, very near to Buddy's and Bob's, and I am one of the participants mentioned by Judie in that I went from being scared out of my mind by the event, to scaring a new generation of little kids.

Their Halloween celebration was a treat for the neighborhood and beyond. I had friends whose parents would drive them to the neighborhood explicitly for this event.

I'm glad that the Triangle gathering again to celebrate Halloween not just like everyone else, but with the spirit of Buddy and Bob especially.

Donvila said...

My wife Paddy lived in this neighborhood and I moved in later. There is spirit of neighborhood there that she still misses.